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Emotion Check-In Chart (Kids)

Help kids identify and communicate feelings.

What it is

A child-facing chart of faces and feeling words that gives kids a low-effort way to share what's going on inside. Naming a feeling is the first step in regulating it.

When to use it

Pinned somewhere everyone passes daily — fridge, bedroom door, family corner. Use it at predictable check-in points like after school or before bed.

How to use it

  1. Hang the chart at child eye level.
  2. Introduce it during a calm moment, not a meltdown.
  3. Ask 'where are you right now?' rather than 'what's wrong?'.
  4. Receive the answer without trying to fix it.
  5. Use it yourself sometimes — modelling matters.

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